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Men fear rejection more than the fairer sex. Here’s what causes such a phobia...
The fear of rejection or experiencing rejection in love can inhibit many individuals from having complete and fulfilling relationships. There are several reasons why men could fear rejection and the idea of being alone. Read on to know more.
The causes: Attachment
One reason why men might fear rejection is when they become very attached to another person. When this happens, people often associate all their joy with that one person. Very deep attachment could cause feelings or fear of loss and rejection.
Desire
The more you want a person to approve of you the more sensitive you become to their likes and dislikes. Often people will do anything to gain approval from the person they desire. When you seek so much approval from someone and they are not sensitive to your feelings, it could trigger a sense of feeling rejected.
The one
Many people live life thinking that there is only one true love and when they lose that person they feel the world has ended. This idea can be unhealthy. If you lose that one person and feel rejected you may be missing out on many opportunities.
Dealing with the problem
To fear rejection is okay and there are ways to deal with the fear. The following are a few ways you can cope with your fear.
Proud to be me
Be the person you really want and tell others your feelings and thoughts more assertively. Even though you may fear that others may not like who you really are and reject you, that is good. Being open separates those people who are “right” for closer relationships from those who are not.
Don’t expect
Pay attention to your own words and actions rather then somebody else’s. Just because you are sensitive to other people’s feelings don’t expect the same from them. Just continue to be yourself and surely enough you will reap the benefits.
People friendly
Men who fear rejection find it very hard to approach someone they like. Don’t approach someone thinking they are probably going to say no anyway. Be positive and your vibe will also radiate good positive energy which is hard to resist.
Romance
Men don’t express themselves romantically because they fear what their partner might think. If your man is someone who feels insecure and is afraid of rejection, you need to take matters into your own hands. Make your man understand that he has nothing to fear and plan a romantic. This will make him feel comfortable and he will learn to trust you.
The fear of rejection or experiencing rejection in love can inhibit many individuals from having complete and fulfilling relationships. There are several reasons why men could fear rejection and the idea of being alone. Read on to know more.
The causes: Attachment
One reason why men might fear rejection is when they become very attached to another person. When this happens, people often associate all their joy with that one person. Very deep attachment could cause feelings or fear of loss and rejection.
Desire
The more you want a person to approve of you the more sensitive you become to their likes and dislikes. Often people will do anything to gain approval from the person they desire. When you seek so much approval from someone and they are not sensitive to your feelings, it could trigger a sense of feeling rejected.
The one
Many people live life thinking that there is only one true love and when they lose that person they feel the world has ended. This idea can be unhealthy. If you lose that one person and feel rejected you may be missing out on many opportunities.
Dealing with the problem
To fear rejection is okay and there are ways to deal with the fear. The following are a few ways you can cope with your fear.
Proud to be me
Be the person you really want and tell others your feelings and thoughts more assertively. Even though you may fear that others may not like who you really are and reject you, that is good. Being open separates those people who are “right” for closer relationships from those who are not.
Don’t expect
Pay attention to your own words and actions rather then somebody else’s. Just because you are sensitive to other people’s feelings don’t expect the same from them. Just continue to be yourself and surely enough you will reap the benefits.
People friendly
Men who fear rejection find it very hard to approach someone they like. Don’t approach someone thinking they are probably going to say no anyway. Be positive and your vibe will also radiate good positive energy which is hard to resist.
Romance
Men don’t express themselves romantically because they fear what their partner might think. If your man is someone who feels insecure and is afraid of rejection, you need to take matters into your own hands. Make your man understand that he has nothing to fear and plan a romantic. This will make him feel comfortable and he will learn to trust you.
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