Wednesday, February 01, 2006

Wo(e)man !

Hey man are you confident that the girl in your life has no problems with other women in your life? Don’t be surprised if she starts accusing you of going around with this ‘other’ woman. Will it come as a bolt from the blue? Well, honey, welcome to the other side of your docile woman.

She’s extremely jealous:
That is because women in general, are obsessively insecure. This is more the case when it comes to men. Why? Because females know exactly how others of their species operate. They know from experience how easy it is to seduce men with pouty lips and great legs. This is how your girlfriend got you, after all. A jealous woman will just assume that you’re lusting after other women, even when you’re not. She’ll spend enormous energy testing you. If you’re late coming home, it’s because you’re having an affair.

How to deal with it:
Jealous women can make your life miserable. So you have to take charge of the situation as soon as it rears its ugly head. Ask her if she finds certain guys attractive, and if she’s thinking of sleeping with them. Tell her not to push these same thoughts onto you. Another idea is to invite her to come along with you when you meet your buddies.

She’s moody :
Women are unpredictable. One minute they’re kissing you and telling you how happy they are, and the next they’re crying about some remark they remember you making a year ago. The female brain is driven by hormones — women think with their emotions. Maybe it all makes sense to them. But their irrational behaviour just leaves men frustrated, bewildered and annoyed.

How to deal with it:
While you certainly can’t change Mother Nature. It’s still fair to ask her to recognise and adjust her behaviour — she may not be aware of how irrational or unpleasant she becomes. Don’t provoke her by bringing up the fact that she forgot to pick up the groceries, for example. Let it pass and go for a walk. There’s nothing wrong with absenting yourself if she’s really experiencing emotional turmoil.

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