That’s what she calls cheating

Men think it’s harmless to flirt a little.

But for women, it is much more than that. It is a breach of commitment

When it comes to cheating, men are king. We cheat at cards, we cheat on our taxes, and far too often, we cheat on our partners. Relationships have definitely become more open these days. Even a decade earlier, going out with a lady client for a formal talk over dinner wouldn’t go down well with the wife or girlfriend. But now she accepts a few things. Professional interaction has nothing to do with going for a date. Or men can always have a girl for a best friend. But there is still a thin line that divides cheating and being just friends. What men perceive as harmless flirting can tantamount to cheating by women.

Would you do it?
Men will immediately know what is acceptable conduct and what is not when they put their girls in their own shoes. Just ask yourself would you be able to accept it if your girlfriend or wife does the same thing? How would you feel if your girl was confiding in another guy about her sexual likes and dislikes? What about if she was dirty dancing in a nightclub with a guy? You might not consider this as cheating but women do. While men consider physical contact as the only means of cheating women feel otherwise.


Tell her everything
Sometimes women are willing to pardon a one-night stand than emotional attachment. She hates the idea of her man connecting with another woman on a emotional level, confiding in her and discussing his sexual likes and dislikes. So what if they haven’t even kissed but this emotional bonding is cheating.

Dancing closely
Dancing involves a lot of passion with women. It’s almost like foreplay. She gets aroused and thinks it’s part of the whole physical act. If you dance with another woman, brushing cheek to cheek, touching her body she will not forgive you for that. For her it’s an act of desire that you can only do with her and not with any other woman.

Flirting shamelessly
For most women stealing a glance at a man at a party or even getting into chat mode are just fine. But things do get a little serious when phone numbers are exchanged and there is an effort to keep in touch. Then you keep in touch without your girlfriend having an inkling, she will just hate it. On the contrary she would appreciate it if you keep her informed that you are keeping in touch. If you want to meet her, take your girl along. Being open about it is much better than keeping it under wraps. A girl and guy can always be friends.

Visiting strip joints
Visiting a strip joint is a man thing. Nowadays, women also have their share of fun with performance by male strippers. But while in a strip joint, touching is a strict no-no. She wouldn’t do it and she would hate it if you pay that extra buck to do it. She feels that if you have to pay that extra dough to just touch her then there is something really wrong in the relationship. Moreover if you really need a lap dance, ask your girl to do it. You don’t have to shell out those extra bucks!


Cyber sex
If you are getting on the net with other women and talking sex that’s perceived as a serious offence by women. According to a survey more than anything else 80 per cent women take it very seriously when men have sexual talk on the net. That’s something they can’t tolerate.

Any sort of physical contact
Anything for a touch, eh. There are some guys who would do anything just to get a little touchy feel with the gal who they feel is hot. On the other hand, his woman thinks it is ridiculous. Now come on guys. You don’t have to be told to behave in front of a hot chick, right?